She said, "Johi! I haven't seen you in forever!"
"I know," I said, "it's obvious when people look at my head."
She asked what I wanted done and instructed me to bring her pictures.
I said, "No problem."
Except when I did research (by Googling "Blond hairstyles 2014"), I realized all the hair I loved was thick and wavy. Mine is neither.
Back to the drawing board. A girl has to work with what God gave her. Or marry for money. Dammit anyway.
They say hombre is 'in'. I say hombre is a free pass to all the lazy girls who don't like to upkeep their hair. Naturally, my hair is currently hombre- only it is unintentional. It's chemically treated, dried out blond on the bottom and four inches of grown out dishwater blond/grey on the top. While I know it sounds beautiful, it's surprisingly not working for me.
What was I going to do with my mop?
Maybe I would just get a wig.
After deciding that I couldn't live with one of those eerie, long necked wig-stand ladies watching me while I sleep, I resorted to my normal method of problem solving. I called a girlfriend (the one who has fabulous hair at all times and can style the bejeebus out of any hair- even mine). My girlfriends can fix anything,
I asked her, "Would you help me find a new hairstyle?"
She said, "Of course."
I said, "It needs to be bright and look cute when I comb it and let it air dry. That's what I do now and it works. Well... maybe it doesn't work... but that's how I style it most days."
She laughed at me. We both know how I tend to look like I've been perpetually trapped in an attic.
I said, "Look. Not everyone has your fabulous hair or your mad styling skills."
She agreed. She's humble like that.
I added, "Plus, I don't want to have to style it. I would say that I don't have the time, but we all know that's a lie. I could get out of bed 15 minutes earlier. The truth is, I simply don't have the personality to style my hair every day."
She guffawed and said, "Just like I don't have the personality to clean the kitchen and cook dinner tonight,"
"Exactly," I said. "You always get me."
That's the moment that I realized that the words 'time' and 'personality' were basically interchangeable. You could also use 'desire' or 'will'. Let me illustrate:
Sally doesn't have the time to give her husband a blow job.
Sally doesn't have the personality to give her husband a blow job.
Missy can't find the time to clean the abandoned woodshed.
Missy can't find the personality to clean the abandoned woodshed.
Sam's time for taking out the trash has diminished.
Sam's personality for taking out the trash has diminished.
Sam Jr. just didn't have the time to do his homework.
Sam Jr. just didn't have the personality to do his homework.
Lisa wants a new time for her hair appointment.
Lisa wants a new personality for her hair appointment.
What Harold lacks in time, he makes up for in performance.
What Harold lacks in personality, he makes up for in performance.
Kenny's time is limited.
Kenny's personality is limited.
Jill just doesn't posses the time to have children.
Jill just doesn't posses the personality to have children.
Johi would like to write more, but currently she doesn't seem to have the time.
Johi would like to write more, but currently she doesn't seem to have the personality.
That was my deep thought of the day. Enjoy.
Peace, love and unicorns,
If you find the time, feel free to send me pictures of cute hairstyles for women with fine, thin, stringy hair. Think Paltrow and Hough, not J-Lo and Vergara. Only time (or my menstrual cycle) will tell what I decide!